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The Soft Minimalist Home - Calm, Cozy Decor for Real Lives and Spaces by Abi Dare of These Four Walls blog

I’m excited to announce the realisation of a long-held dream: my first book!

Published by Ryland Peters & Small, with photography by Benjamin Edwards, The Soft Minimalist Home – Calm, Cozy Decor for Real Lives and Spaces introduces a relaxed, liveable approach to minimalism and dispels the myth that minimalist interiors are stark, soulless boxes with no personality.

As well as sharing practical advice on colour, layout, lighting, texture and more, I’ll show you around 15 beautiful homes across the UK and Europe, exploring how a diverse range of people have crafted pared-back spaces that are warm, welcoming and as individual as they are. There are homes large and small, new and old, urban and rural, rented and owned – homes for families, single people and couples. Together, they demonstrate that minimalist interiors can be cosy, full of character and attainable for all, no matter what your budget or the type of property you live in.

Throughout, I hope to show that minimalism does not necessarily mean living with less, but rather freeing up space for the things you truly cherish – and inspire you to harness the mood-boosting benefits of soft, minimalist decor for yourself.  

The Soft Minimalist Home – Calm, Cozy Decor for Real Lives and Spaces is available now and you can order using the links below.

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The Soft Minimalist Home - calm, cozy decor for real lives and spaces by Abi Dare of These Four Walls blog
 
The Soft Minimalist Home - calm, cozy decor for real lives and spaces by Abi Dare of These Four Walls blog
 
The Soft Minimalist Home - calm, cozy decor for real lives and spaces by Abi Dare of These Four Walls blog
 
The Soft Minimalist Home - calm, cozy decor for real lives and spaces by Abi Dare of These Four Walls blog
 

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Abi Dare | These Four Walls blog

I’m Abi Dare – a stylist, photographer and writer based in Bristol (UK). I set up this blog to share interior design, travel and lifestyle inspiration for simple, relaxed living at home and beyond. You’ll find home tours, advice and tips, interviews, reviews, postcards from places I love and more – always with a focus on soft minimalism, muted colours and timeless, considered design.

‘Top 10 UK interior design blogs’ 2025, 2024, 2023 & 2022, Vuelio

‘Best Interior Design Blog’, uFurnish Home Awards 2024

Winner of the ‘Blogger’ category in the Sweetpea & Willow Home Influencer Awards 2023

‘Best Design & Architecture Blog’, UK Blog Awards 2019

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Eight years ago today. Carousel posts didn't exist Eight years ago today. Carousel posts didn't exist then so I'm using our anniversary as an excuse to share some of my favourite wedding photos.

I have so many happy memories from the day, but what I remember the most is all the laughter. And the funniest best men's (Chris had four!) speech I've ever heard. I wish we'd had a videographer just to capture that.

Anyway, thanks @small_round_things for the last eight years - and for the 13 before we actually got around to tying the knot!

Venue: @pyneshouse 
Photography: @taylorandporter
Back on the grid after more than two weeks. Thanks Back on the grid after more than two weeks. Thanks to everyone who sent messages checking I was OK - I just lost my Instagram mojo and needed a bit of a break. Anyway, here are some phone-camera snippets of life lately...

1.  Guard cat on duty while I work
2.  Evening light hitting the last of the Japanese quince blossom in the garden 
3.  Country drives
4.  Coming across 17th-century graffiti while house-hunting
5 & 6.  A lazy Sunday stroll on Clevedon Pier, on one of those hazy days where the sea and sky seem to merge into one
7.  Keeping drooping spring blooms going for as long as possible 
8 & 9.  Wisteria at @ntbarringtoncourt in Somerset 
10.  Brunch at the always-wonderful @lunitapasteleria 
11.  Enjoying the balmy spring breeze 
12.  Stunning mosaic floors at Chedworth Roman Villa in Gloucestershire 
13.  Bluebell season
14.  My kind of wine
15.  Wild garlic 

#springhassprung #slowsimpleseasonal #cornersofmyworld #lifelately #blossomseverywhere #thisprettyengland #thelocalwayfarer #westcountry #littlestoriesofmylife #poetryofsimplethings #seeingthepretty #tinytinymoments
[AD - PR product] I've always loved marble as a ma [AD - PR product] I've always loved marble as a material, and the beige Kunis Breccia version of the @newworksdk 'Kizu' table lamp caught my eye immediately. I now have this design in three different colourways around the house, and this is definitely my favourite to date! 

#softminimalisthome #softminimalstyle #neutralhomedecor #simplehomestyle #minimalistdecor #simpleinterior #mycosyhome #neutrallivingroom #minimalistlighting #scandiinterior
A few weeks ago I travelled to Drammen in Norway f A few weeks ago I travelled to Drammen in Norway for the big project I'm working on (more on that soon), and while I was there I had a look around @askogeng's workshop. I've been a fan of their sustainable bamboo kitchens and furniture for a long time, so this was a real treat. And the space itself is full of the time-worn textures and beautiful details that always catch my eye.

#texturesandtones #warehousestyle #kitchendesign #scandinavianinteriors #scandinaviandesign #bitsofbuildings #ihavethisthingwithwindows #perfectlyimperfect

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